FInding Myself Again Post Baby
It’s been a while since I last wrote, and oh, what a journey it has been! For those of you who have been following me for a while, you know how much I’ve always loved fashion and beauty. But life has a way of taking unexpected turns, and mine took the most wonderful one – I became a mommy!!!
The past year and a half has been a whirlwind of sleepless nights, endless diaper changes, and overwhelming love. As much as I cherish every moment with my little one, I have to admit that somewhere along the way, I lost a bit of myself. My style took a backseat to practicality, and my confidence wavered as I navigated this new chapter of my life.
But with the dawn of a new year, I feel an undeniable energy – the call to reclaim my sense of self, rediscover my style, and become the best version of myself. This fresh start is not just about resolutions; it’s about intention, growth, and empowerment. And I want to take you all on this journey with me.
Rediscovering My Style in 2025
Motherhood changes you in profound ways. It’s a beautiful transformation, but it can also be easy to forget the woman you were before. For me, fashion has always been a form of self-expression. It’s not just about the clothes I wear, but about how they make me feel.
This year, I’m embracing style as an extension of my personal growth. I’m allowing myself to explore new looks that reflect who I am now while holding onto elements of the woman I’ve always been. The first step has been giving myself permission to take time for me. It’s okay to prioritize my needs and indulge in the things that bring me joy. This is a reminder for all of you: taking care of yourself is not selfish; it’s necessary.
Simplifying My Wardrobe
My style journey post-baby and into the new year started with simplifying my wardrobe. Gone are the days of spending hours deciding what to wear. Now, I need pieces that are functional yet stylish, comfortable yet chic. I’ve embraced a more minimalist approach, focusing on versatile staples that can be mixed and matched effortlessly.
Here are a few tips that have helped me:
Invest in Quality Basics: Think classic jeans, versatile tops, and comfortable yet stylish shoes. These form the foundation of your wardrobe.
Embrace Layers: Layers add depth to your outfit and can be adjusted for different occasions and weather.
Accessorize: A statement necklace or a stylish handbag can elevate even the simplest outfit.
Prioritize Comfort: Comfort is key, especially when you’re on the go with a baby. Look for fabrics that are soft and breathable.
Incorporating Affirmations into Daily Life
Style is one way I’m reclaiming my confidence, but the inner work is just as important. As we step into a new year, it’s the perfect time to set the tone for personal growth. One practice that has been incredibly empowering for me is the use of affirmations.
Affirmations are positive statements that help you challenge and overcome self-sabotaging and negative thoughts. They can boost your confidence, guide your intentions, and keep you grounded. This year, I’m using affirmations as a daily tool to align myself with the woman I’m becoming.
To support you in your own journey, I’ve created an affirmation eBook titled “MOMME: 90 Spiritual Affirmations to Empower Your Essence as a Mother”. While it’s designed with moms in mind, these affirmations are for anyone looking to cultivate self-love and confidence.
Here’s how you can incorporate affirmations into your daily life as we prepare to become the best versions of ourselves in 2025:
Morning Ritual: Start your day by speaking affirmations aloud while looking in the mirror. For example: “I am worthy of all the good things this year has to offer.”
Journaling: Write down three affirmations each morning or evening. Reflect on how they align with your goals.
Daily Reminders: Set affirmations as phone reminders or sticky notes around your home. Keep them visible to reinforce positive thinking.
Mindful Moments: When you feel overwhelmed, pause and repeat an affirmation to ground yourself. One of my favorites is: “I am capable of handling whatever comes my way.”
Here are a few affirmations from my eBook to inspire you:
“I love all of me for God made me in His image (Genesis 1:27).”
“I lean on God’s understanding and trust His plans, even when life seems uncertain (Proverbs 3:5-6).”
“I prioritize self-care, recognizing the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight (1 Peter 3:4).”
Embracing the New Year, Embracing the New Me
This journey is about stepping into 2025 with intention. It’s about shedding old doubts and fears, celebrating progress, and embracing the new me – the me that has grown, evolved, and gained a new perspective on life. It’s about finding balance and celebrating small victories. It’s about realizing that while I may have changed, my love for fashion and beauty remains.
To all the women out there, whether you’re new moms, seasoned mothers, or simply navigating life’s challenges, I hope you find a piece of yourself in my story. We’re all on this journey together, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time.
This year, let’s commit to becoming the best versions of ourselves. Let’s rediscover our style, nurture our confidence, and remind ourselves of the incredible women we are.
Thank you for being patient and for continuing to support me. I can’t wait to connect with you all again, share tips and inspiration.
With love and gratitude,
LC ❤️
P.S. Don’t forget to check out my new affirmation eBook, “MOMME: 90 Spiritual Affirmations to Empower Your Essence as a Mother”. Let’s start the year with powerful intentions and empower each other, one affirmation at a time.